Do looks count?
Thanks for all the comments regarding worldly guys. Of course all the guys mentioned British/American/German/French etc were stereotypes but it was fun compiling and really we do try not to rely on stereotypes in any way do we??
I was thinking today as to what attracts us to other men. It could be a host of different things. Of course the very politically correct answer would be 'It isnt their looks that count, looks dont matter to me, it's purely their personality'. Well lets look purely at the physical attributes that make us attracted to other people...........
A Guys eyes: We all know that a set of good eyes can really get those juices flowing whether they are blue eyes brown eyes or somewhere in between. Those deep pools of colour that stare intimately into your eyes, those eyes that scream that they just want to take you to bed..........(now lets not get carried away.) You then also get guys that just love guys in glasses which is that geeky intelligent look. What more can I say?
A Guys Hair: Is there anything better than rubbing your hand through a mop of pure blond or black hair? Of course there is not just the hair on the head but also on the chest legs ar*e and pubic area. Some like smooth some like extra hair and some like that shaved feeling. either way, hair can make a guy seem very attractive.
A Guys height: Do we all like tall guys or is small more cute? Do tall guys give an impression of dominance? I once knew a guy who was 6ft 7. I think i came up to his nipple! Height may be important to some guys but remember....everyone's the same height laying down!
A Guys Size: Ok, this one has two connotations! Some like skinny guys while others prefer guys with a bit of extra meat on their bones. It seems that these days guys who are skinny want to be bigger and guys who are bigger want to be more smaller. Either way, if guys are skinny or large, they could still have a pot and does anyone find pots attractive.
The second connotation is the size downstairs. Some guys like them big and some like them........well actually i dont know any guys that like them small! Some like them thick some like them thin but some guys rate guys purely on their size. I cant see the point of this because if the offending object is packaged appropriately in a pair of nice jeans you can make it as small or large as you like and it's not until you looked at things for real that you can decide whether you like a guy.
A Guys Bottom: Surely we all like a butt that is just perfect to look at. Again some like skinny butts while some prefer one or two handfuls. Some like a butt that flicks side to side when it walks while others like seeing it gently flinch as it walks down the street. A Butt can be dressed to look good as well. Anyways a good firm ass iis always appealing guys.
A Guys Legs: What can i say. This is my personal favourite. Hairy or smooth, pale or tanned, muscular or stubby, many guys rate legs as a high priority in another man. I guess if your perfect guy was a runner and you really loved legs then you would feel like you have the perfect guy!
What's your favourite part of a guy?
These are all superficial attributes but it is good to it is great to imagine the perfect guy.
kev.in.real.time
posted by kevin @ 6:05 PM
9 Comments:
Nice post.
Attraction (and its twin, repulsion) is the most mysterious of intangibles. The shape of an ear, and eyelid, fingers, a scent, eyes, the shape of a thigh, voice, one’s mind, and one’s soul. All come into play to attract or to repulse one from another.
I sometimes find the unexpected exotic can attract. Blond Italians and Spanish, dark haired northern Europeans with light skin. But in the end, it is always the soul that will make a lasting relationship. The soul trumps all else.
I am a face man. It's the first thing I look at...a guy's smile, eyes, nose...everything about the face. And then I watch the walk. The walk is important, because how a person carries themselves reflects their attitude about themselves.
I don't have a type though, which is odd.
your last two post have been great.... To me it is in his eyes... that look that just makes things click... eye color makes no difference... it was that look in Jeffs eyes that melted me at first site... also with the eyes, we both have a thing for guys with unique eyes... you know, the really really blue eyes or off color eyes that just stand out...
Nice lips and arms turn our head too..
Definitely the face grabs me first, but then the rest gets checked out.
As for being all the same height lying down, I might "raise" an objection. ;)
A hairy butt! But you would have to be in a place like a bathhouse in order to have it be the first thing that attracts you. If I was walking down the street, it would be the eyes and how he looked at me. (also nice feet, just a fetish of mine)
Yes, looks count. Anyone who says otherwise is deluding themselves.
I'm a leg man first and foremost. I love muscular legs...be they smooth or hairy. Second would have to be lips. I just love thick, plump lips.
Give me David Beckhams legs, Tom Sellicks chest and Ross Kemps face!!!
If I can't have that I guess I'll settle for 4 legs and a lot of wool !
If you've ever seen the HBO prison drama "Oz" then you will know my type.
I like rough-looking guys, shaved heads, goatees, inked and pierced, with biceps the size of softballs.
I call it the 'prison sex' look. Yum yum gimme some!
Kevin,
Thanks for the comment on my blog. The weather's not too cold and The Queen was very good.
As for the Velocity book by Dean Koontz, here's a link to a synopsis:
http://www.powells.com/cgi-bin/biblio?isbn=0553804154
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